Flourishing Lads

A comprehensive, individualized coaching/tutoring service to help boys/young men thrive in and out of the classroom

ADHD Coaching—Tutoring—Mentoring

Are you struggling to help your son?

With ADHD, anxiety, depression, and screen addiction on the rise, boys are struggling academically, emotionally, and socially more than ever.

At Flourishing Lads, we offer a hands-on, holistic approach built on trust, understanding, and positive reinforcement.

Our Services

  • Executive Function coaching

    Executive function skills serve as the essential building blocks for achieving academic excellence and reaching personal goals. As an experienced specialist, I am dedicated to empowering young individuals by nurturing these foundational skills.

    Executive function skills encompass a range of abilities, including time management, organization, planning, problem-solving, and self-regulation. They form the backbone of success in school and life.

  • Holistic Life Coaching

    We believe in empowering lads to lead fulfilling lives through a holistic approach to coaching. We are committed to guiding our clients through a journey of positive change, focusing on transforming attitudes and beliefs, providing empathetic support, and fostering the development of healthier habits. We understand that true well-being encompasses the mind, body, and spirit.

  • College and NYC HS Application Consulting

    Navigating the competitive landscape of high school applications and college admissions can be overwhelming. We guide students and families through the process.

    Consulting

    We will help your family and child compile a list of schools best suited to your ambitions and create a plan getting your child into the best school for them.

    Personal Statement

    We excel at helping young people write compelling personal narratives that artistically show schools who your child is and what makes them a great candidate.

  • Reading and Writing Tutoring

    We specialize in providing personalized writing tutoring that goes beyond grammar and punctuation. Our mission is to ignite a passion for storytelling, academic excellence, and effective communication.

    Building Confidence: Writing can be intimidating, but it doesn't have to be. we work with students of all ages to boost their confidence in expressing their ideas effectively, whether it's for school assignments, college applications, or personal projects.

  • Life Coach Caretaking (Ages 6-11)

    Life Coach Caretaking" exists to provide boys with a nurturing, encouraging, and fun mentor, manny, academic tutor, and life coach all in one.

    Fun and Engaging Activities:

    Imagine your child exploring the city, engaging in exciting activities, and developing lifelong skills with a caring, supportive mentor they relate to and can trust. We believe in the power of joy and play as catalysts for growth and physical health.

  • Virtual Mentoring Checkins

    In addition to in-person services, one of out most essential tools is virtual check-ins throughout the week, to make sure your lad is on track in his journey to greater academic and personal flourishing.

    We believe in the power of collaboration. Regular updates and open communication ensure that you're an active part of your child's journey with us. We are also happy to regularly communicate and coordinate with teachers to better support your child’s academic, intellectual, and behavioral development.

Matt Vella: Your Trusted Coach and Educator

Hello, I'm Matt Vella, an educator, executive function coach, life coach, and future therapist born and raised in NYC. With nearly a decade of experience serving students and their families, I'm passionate about helping clients unlock their potential and achieve their personal, academic, and professional goals.

My Journey

While studying psychology at Hunter College, I worked with families around NYC as a tutor and ADHD behavioral interventionist. After receiving my BA, I received a Master of Science in Education through the prestigious New York City Teaching Fellows program, setting the stage for a career dedicated to nurturing young minds in the classroom. I honed my skills as a Middle School English Language Arts teacher on the Upper West Side of Manhattan, gaining invaluable experience in student-centered educational practices. I currently attend the Silberman School of Social Work where I am working towards becoming a fully licensed clinical psychotherapist. The Power of Relationships

At the heart of my work is the belief that strong relationships built on empathy, humor, and trust are the foundation for growth and success. Whether working with clients, parents or collaborating with colleagues, I believe connections are key to meaningful progress.

Expertise in Executive Function

One of my specialties lies in empowering individuals to overcome challenges related to executive function, which is a large difficulty for people with ADHD. Many clients I've worked with initially saw their underdeveloped executive function skills as insurmountable obstacles. However, through our work together, they've not only improved these skills but also gained competence and confidence.

A Firm Belief

I am convinced that everyone, regardless of their starting point, can make significant positive changes in their lives and flourish.

  • Interested in working with us?

    If you believe Flourishing Lads could help your child thrive:

    Step 1: Schedule a free consultation over zoom here: consultation link

    Step 2: Based on our consultation we’ll create a plan unique to help your son flourish.

    Step 3: Begin an introductory period to ensure we’re the right fit for your son and your family.

Contact us.

Flourishinglads@gmail.com

New York, NY